Gromit37 wrote:Your skills cannot fully replace a lack of skill or judgement in others. If somebody inappropriately emulates what they have seen you doing (safely and legitimately), but a week later and 100 miles away, how can you be responsible? Which is why I asked how far the limit extends.
Gromit - you are absolutely right - I can't stop someone from doing something stupid.
However, I have sufficient observation and training that in some limited set of circumstances, I am likely to spot them putting themselves in a situation where they might have to do something stupid to get out of it. Perhaps only if some second event happens. Perhaps not.
The question then is whether I can make their drive safer without compromising the safety of mine.
For example, if I come up behind some motorist on a B-road like some fire-breathing dragon and sit mid-road, or fully off-side, with my headlamps on, looking for an overtake through some semi-open twisties, I recognise that I am likely to affect his driving. If I can't complete that overtake promptly, I am going to have to take a view on whether to maintain my position or drop off. If I notice that his driving is affected: perhaps he speeds up, or overdrives, starts clipping more dusty gutters, then I am more likely to drop off.
Similarly if I see someone trying to keep up with me on a section of road (usually some poor motorcyclist) and I can see that he is starting to be affected by my drive, I may modify my style so that it encourages him less. Or might turn-off and take a cup of tea.
I find it emotionally hard to disengage in situations where another motorist endangers me or themselves and requires me to cede legitimate progress, road position or priority to them; which is why I make a bit of a fuss here about it being a value / belief so that I can use that hook to overcome that emotion and drive as I think I would like to rather than as I might feel I want do.
Fundamentally, I believe that if I could have done something differently and prevented someone else from having an accident, then that's the sort of thing that I ought to be using my observation, planning and car control for.
HTH. Fancy a drive?